Friday, May 25
Friday, May 25, 2007
Am I an Introvert?
You may be an introvert if:
.You value solitude
.You avoid unnecessary social interaction
.You listen
.You seek alone time
.You keep to yourself, or a small group of friends
.You are hard to get to know
.You think before you speak
.You have less, but deeper realtionships with people
.You value your privacy
Are you an Introvert?
Dictionary.com defines an introvert from many different sources, but the one that seems the most applicable to real introverts is WordNet's, "a person who tends to shrink from social contacts and to become preoccupied with their own thoughts."
It is important to note that Introverts are not always shy. And Introverts do not always shrink from social contacts. What really defines an introvert is how they physically an emotionally react to social interaction. Where an extrovert will gain energy from others, an introvert, who may enjoy the interaction just as much, will feel mildly drained, or even exhausted from speaking and interacting with others. This is why the introvert will often seek out time to be alone, or a quiet place. Introverts needs to re-charge and we do this in our own ways - often by avoiding other people for a short (or longer if necessary period of time.
How can you help an Introvert?
What if there is a problem? How can I help an Introvert in a difficult situation? They keep shutting me out.
Introverts are great at coping and may not need or want your help in dealing with difficult situations. If your child or spouse is an obvious introvert, it may be best to leave them alone for a period of time before trying to talk out a problem or console them. They need that time to process the situation and will likely seek you out when they are ready.
Is being an Introvert a medical condition?
Introversion is often referred to in medical terminology. While being too introvered can be a problem, (just as being too outgoing can be a problem), introverts can learn to adapt and cope. Introverts do not need to stop being introverted, or "get over it." They do not need medication unless it is prescribed for another malady. In fact it may be impossible for a true introvert to ever be anything but an introvert. Managing one's introversion is the key; learning coping skills such as taking a long walk, or planning quiet time after a long meeting is important. If one's introversion begins to take over one's life, keeping them from any social interaction at all, it may be evidence of another problem, such as depression. Medical treatment should be sought out if a person's behavior changes dramatically, or if they no longer wish any contact with others. This, however is not a sign of just introversion, again, it is the sign of a serious medical problem and needs to be treated appropriately
What is the difference between introverts and extroverts?
The simplest way to differentiate an extrovert and an introvert, is that an extrovert gains energy from the interaction with other people - an introvert loses energy when interacting with others. That doesn't necessarily mean an introvert is shy - just that they will need to take a short refreshing walk in the middle of a party, or spend some quiet alone time after an event.
Can you get over being an introvert?
Not usually. Introverts tend to always be introverts, but like anything else there are varying degrees of introversion. You can, however, get over shyness. There are plenty of bold and out-going introverts--and a few shy extroverts too.
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Im an introvert.hehehehe..
My friends can testified to that.They all noe me as kepala angin.hahahahahah.
Becoz i tend to shut ppl off wheneva i feel stressed out or pissed.hahahaa..
but...being introvert doest make you an anti social.Actually its gd being an introvert.There's an advantages of it.
Advantages
Introverts Possess:
10) Work Well With Others, Especially In One-to-One Relationships
9) Maintain Long-Term Friendships
8) Flexible
7) Independent
6) Strong Ability To Concentrate
5) Self-Reflective
4) Responsible
3) Creative, Out-of-the-Box thinking
2) Analytical Skills That Integrate Complexity
1) Studious and Smart
So its ok being an introvert.You r not a Loser juz because your social life is not packed with invitation to parties or watsoeva.Think of it as its cool being an introvert.*wink*